1 Corinthians 11:3
But I want you to realize that the head of every man is Christ, and the head of the woman is man, and the head of Christ is God.
Until you follow this line of leadership and submit fully to it, you are going to face all kinds of problems that you will never be able to solve. You must follow this eternal line of leadership to escape the problems of this world. Submission to God's leadership in Christ leads to full Christformation in you. You can prove to me that you are submissive to this and that in this world but are you really submissive to Christ, in the first place? You can lie to man but you can never lie to God and get away with it. You are not submissive to Christ but you claim that you are submisssive to this authority and that. Who are you trying to fool? The head of every man is Christ. Can you submit to that? If you can't, then there is nothing common between me and you! Strictly follow God's line of leadership at all cost. There is no argument or pretension accepted about this. Just follow that first. Don't keep giving excuses for your insubmission to Christ. It shows that you do not fear God. The head of Christ is God the Father. The head of woman is man and the head of every man is Christ. Note the word "every" man. As long as you do not submit to Christ, you are going to be the problem in this world because you have not submitted to God's line of leadership. Wake up! Don't try to be too smart and give all kinds of excuses. You are the liar not God. God does not lie. Who are you trying to lie to? Sit down in one corner and think for a moment. Admit it that you are insubmissive to Christ and you have always been that way. That is why you do not obey Him. You are trying to give excuses so that you do not have to obey Him. Sorry, we have to teach you how to submit to Him by being obedient to all that He had commanded or else there is nothing common to talk to you about. We are different! Accept that.
Colossians 1: 15-23
The Son is the image of the invisible God, the firstborn over all creation. For in him all things were created: things in heaven and on earth, visible and invisible, whether thrones or powers or rulers or authorities; all things have been created through him and for him. He is before all things, and in him all things hold together. And he is the head of the body, the church; he is the beginning and the firstborn from among the dead, so that in everything he might have the supremacy. For God was pleased to have all his fullness dwell in him, and through him to reconcile to himself all things, whether things on earth or things in heaven, by making peace through his blood, shed on the cross. Once you were alienated from God and were enemies in your minds because of your evil behavior. But now he has reconciled you by Christ's physical body through death to present you holy in his sight, without blemish and free from accusation-- if you continue in your faith, established and firm, and do not move from the hope held out in the gospel. This is the gospel that you heard and that has been proclaimed to every creature under heaven, and of which I, Paul, have become a servant.